{"id":33,"date":"2025-12-02T20:32:49","date_gmt":"2025-12-02T20:32:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gregsnotepad.com\/?p=33"},"modified":"2025-12-16T20:54:35","modified_gmt":"2025-12-16T20:54:35","slug":"divorced-the-big-blessing-of-2025","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gregsnotepad.com\/index.php\/2025\/12\/02\/divorced-the-big-blessing-of-2025\/","title":{"rendered":"Divorced! (the big blessing of 2025)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-retrogeek-link-background-color has-background wp-block-paragraph\">This is easily the best year in a long long time. <br><br>It should have happened a long time ago, but it didn&#8217;t because I thought love could be saved even though it was obviously beyond repair. Well it happened, and jesus christ, it&#8217;s been the best damn thing ever. When you start out sort of good, but then slowly distill the fun away, year after year, you can end up in a really strange situation where you dont really realize how bad it is until it is over. <br><br>It&#8217;s probably not something you can really relate to without having gone through it. Well I did go through it! It&#8217;s sort of like living the dream life, only opposite. So when you eventually do come out of it, life is just psychedelic. I just completely forgot how fun and beautiful life can be. <br><br>I mean, I&#8217;m really celebrating in advance here because I&#8217;m still living with my ex-wife since the divorce a few months ago. So you could say it&#8217;s still hell. But it&#8217;s a lesser hell. It&#8217;s like hell but you know it&#8217;s going to end pretty soon. One more month to be exact. So sure, it could be better. But it could be way worse too lol \ud83d\ude00 <br><br>Note to self: If the relationship is not very fun and loving, don&#8217;t try to repair it for 10 years. You don&#8217;t have a whole lot of &#8220;10 years&#8221; to throw around with if you think about it.<br><br><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is easily the best year in a long long time. It should have happened a long time ago, but it didn&#8217;t because I thought love could be saved even though it was obviously beyond repair. Well it happened, and jesus christ, it&#8217;s been the best damn thing ever. When you start out sort of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gregsnotepad.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gregsnotepad.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gregsnotepad.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gregsnotepad.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gregsnotepad.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/gregsnotepad.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":38,"href":"https:\/\/gregsnotepad.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33\/revisions\/38"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gregsnotepad.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gregsnotepad.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gregsnotepad.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}